Some lesbians can fall for straight guys, gay guys can fall for trans guys, straight girls, bi guys, bi girls. Be proud of yourself, do not let anybody put you down. Understand a bit about what science says about being gay. If you are uncomfortable with going to one of these meetings due to privacy concerns or are simply unable to attend in general, search online for some chat groups. Krystal Respect the privacy of individuals you know who may be wary about coming out. For example, noma-sexuality, which is attraction to all people but men, is under the polysexual umbrella.
There are also signs that you might be gay to consider.
One of the things that I've heard helps you to realise who you may be is experimenting with people to find out who you are. How to deal with falling in love for your best and straight friend? Again, it doesn't mean that person is gay, but even Facebook has a way of knowing that you're more likely to be gay if you have many more gay friends than the average person.
They feel comfortable and secure about being attracted to people of the same gender.